Experts weigh in on whether mental illness is involved when people have fetishes such as bondage, obsession with feet, or adult diapers.
Some people become sexually aroused by an object or part of the body that’s not typically considered sexual, such as feet or hair.
Others may develop a liking for a particular lifestyle that allows them to live out their fetish or interest in erotic role-playing, such as bondage, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism (BDSM). Think “Fifty Shades of Grey.”
Fetishes and alternative erotic lifestyles come in a wide variety of forms, from common to extreme.
Orgasm control
This may be common in some places but it is unfair to the receiver. Here the submissive partner is brought to the edge of climax and suddenly forced to stop. This is repeated a number of times. This is a major turn on for the dominating partner as he/she gets to control the reins, deciding when the other should orgasm.
Watching their partner pee
It is common knowledge that some men are turned on when they watch a woman pee but interestingly some women too feel horny when they watch their man do it.
Bondage
Bondage sex is common but did you know that some women love torturing their men by touching them everywhere while his hands are tied and he cannot move? It is an automatic response when you want to hold your partner too while they are giving you pleasure but by tying the hands and feet while the other goes down on you, can be a major turn on for some people.
Adults in diapers
This fetish is also known as Autonepiophilia where adults act as babies – literally. One partner is to dress up as a baby in a proper diaper and the other acts like “mommy” or a nurturing figure. Rest we leave to your imagination.